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Wednesday, October 5, 2011

i am amazing

     Good evening everyone, tonight, as I am busy reading my news feed in Facebook, I came across this story, and I really empathize and absolutely agree in this issue:


A while back, at the entrance of a gym, there was a picture of a very thin and beautiful woman. The caption was "This summer, do you want to be a mermaid or a whale?"

The story goes, a woman (of clothing size unknown) answered the following way:

"Dear people, whales are always surrounded by friends (dolphins, seals, curious humans), they are sexually active and raise their children with great tenderness.
They entertain like crazy with dolphins and eat lots of prawns. They swim all day and travel to fantastic places like Patagonia, the Barents Sea or the coral reefs of Polynesia.
They sing incredibly well and sometimes even are on cds. They are impressive and dearly loved animals, which everyone defend and admires.

Mermaids do not exist.

But if they existed, they would line up to see a psychologist because of a problem of split personality: woman or fish?
They would have no sex life and could not bear children.
Yes, they would be lovely, but lonely and sad.
And, who wants a girl that smells like fish by his side?

Without a doubt, I'd rather be a whale.

At a time when the media tells us that only thin is beautiful, I prefer to eat ice cream with my kids, to have dinner with my husband, to eat and drink and have fun with my friends.

We women, we gain weight because we accumulate so much wisdom and knowledge that there isn't enough space in our heads, and it spreads all over our bodies.
We are not fat, we are greatly cultivated.
Every time I see my curves in the mirror, I tell myself: "How amazing am I ?! "

(The girl on the picture is French model Tara Lynn)
— with Teresa Myers. link
     A story that should be in the hearts of every woman who are suffering from discrimination about being curvy or over weight. Self-confidence should be natural and should be on your own package, and not earned from other people--- 


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x.o.x.o
-eji-

17 comments:

WonderWoman said...

I honestly think this woman's letter is very rude to thin women. It's fine to love curvy women, but why must she put down thin women while she's at it?

http://wonderwomanrises.blogspot.com

HeartDollie♥ said...

I LOVED this photo, it was so inspiring, LOVED that you made it a post, LOVE your blog girl!<3

<3 Dollie.
www.heartdollie.com

shmily said...

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Followed you.. :)


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eji patanao said...

@wonderwoman: i think she's pertaining as what to why whales (curvy woman) are compared to mermaids ( thin woman) i can't blame her to feel that way, we have our own relative opinion.

@heartdollie:thank you! i just wanna share this :)

@shmily: thanks :)

lisa signorini said...

love it!


New outfit on my blog!
www.thecurlylady.blogspot.com

hello, Friday said...

I'm totally against media worshiping skin and bone models. As long as one is healthy, I'm fine. xoxo

http://hellofridaybypaik.blogspot.com/

Eva en Anna said...

Cool post :-)!

Thanks for the comment! Would you like to follow each other :-)?

Anna, Eva
http://www.annaeva.blogspot.com

eji patanao said...

@lisa: i saw the outfit, 'twas awesome :)
@hello friday: yes, healthy living should be the advocacy :)
@eva: thanks :)

Diane said...

I love this post! This is really important that women accept themselves for the way they are!

thanks for dropping by my blog btw :)

Maria Regina P. said...

I agree on this, a woman's wight doesn't define who she is <3 I admire the plump girls out there.

<3 maria

eji patanao said...

@diane: thank you, women should really feel great about themselves :)
@maria: we should be :)

Empress Za Lemore said...

I totally agree...thanks for sharing this.

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Za

Makeup & Art Freak said...

Great blog! Followed! :) Follow back? http://makeupandartfreak.blogspot.com/

C & M said...

I love it! brilliant!
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eji patanao said...

thanks guys ;))

Sanna said...

Love whats written so inspiring.Btw m following you coz i like what ure doing here..thanks for ur love on my blog :)

♥AdamAlexMommy.com♥ said...

this is a beautiful photos. very inspiring to all the women out there.

you have an awesome blog--and i really enjoyed browsing your posts. new follower via google, and i hope we can stay connected. cheers, and have a great day!
jasmine
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